I read this in The StarPhoenix today. It was enough that I wanted to cancel my subscription.
A special winter weather statement has been issued by Environment Canada for the City of Saskatoon.
According to a warning posted Monday afternoon on the Environment Canada website, an “intense low pressure system with a strong cold front will sweep across Saskatchewan Wednesday bringing an abrupt end to the mild November weather.”
Behind the cold front, temperatures will plummet to normal for this time of year, with overnight lows falling into the minus double digits, the national weather forecaster predicted.
Alongside a drop in temperatures, Environment Canada also predicts blustering northwesterly winds, with central and eastern sections of the province hit the hardest by gusts between 60 and 90 kilometres per hour expected.
I guess this means summer is over. Sigh. I missed it.
Most of you know that Wendy struggles with major depressive disorder. She has written about it a lot if you care. It comes every summer and has been horrible since Oliver was born. It manifests itself in some severe self-destructive behavior and since we are married and have two sons, it affects the boys and I as much or more than it does her.
You know what, for the first time in over 15 years, it never made an appearance.
Some friends have asked what the difference is. She has been on medication for years and that hasn’t always helped as a large part of the depression is psychological but for whatever reason, it hasn’t hit this year. I have some theories but here is the one that makes the most sense.
Two Christmases ago, I gave her two cameras for Christmas. I was working at Don’s Photo and Wendy had asked for a new compact camera. Well actually she didn’t but her camera sucked and she was accepting that fact. I bought a Fujifilm JX600 compact camera for her and later that season, someone traded in an Olympus PEN EPL-2. I got a good deal on it and bought it for her. She cried when she opened the gift. She said that she would never need another lens but a week later, Olympus had their 40-150mm lens on sale for $103 so she bought that for herself.
Last Christmas I bought her a 19mm Sigma f/2.8 Art lens which she loved. Later on she bought herself a Sigma 60mm f/2.8 Art lens which I’ll be honest, I don’t know if she ever uses. In March, I used some Christmas bonus money and bought her an Olympus OM-D E-M10. It’s not Olympus’ professional camera but it’s a great camera and she loved it.
Being sick this summer, plans to go to the Fringe or the Jazz Festival were changed. I would go home and sleep while Wendy would go out with the boys, always bringing the camera. Instead of waiting for me to take the lead, she would just do something. I realized that photography had made her more independent and helped her fix her relationship with Mark that the depression had damaged.
If they weren’t off taking some photos at the SaskTel Jazz Festival, they were off walking along Broadway grabbing a coffee and shooting some street shots, or going to Waskesiu to explore a trail or five.
I also think the positive feedback makes a difference. When she would post about Jian Ghomeshi’s alleged crimes this summer, she would get hateful comments. When she wrote about violence towards women in Guyana, she got hate mail and even angry responses from her (Guyanese) parents. When she posted photos on Flickr, she got favorites from photographers she respected and questions about lens and settings. Maybe finding the right community makes all the difference.
So yeah, personally it was a crappy summer with a leg that keeps getting worse but as a family, it was a great summer because for the first time in a very long time, the grey clouds of depression never came by.