Wendy has posted a series of tested recipes for those of you who are preparing for American Thanksgiving or as Ameircan’s call it, “Thanksgiving”. If you are looking for help or ideas, check them out, there are some terrific ideas in the recipe section of the her site.
Hopefully you find something that makes your Thanksgiving preparations a little easier this holiday season.
I attended the funeral of my friend Kristy Dean today. I got to know her through Jerry and Gloria Reimer and we like many others became her friend. As Gloria said today, she crashed there for a night but stayed there for 10 years. With Jerry and Gloria being godparents to Mark and Oliver and the closest thing Wendy and I have to parents, Kristy was close to us as well.
Today her sister and Gloria gave stirring eulogies. I came home and went looking through some photos and found some favorites. I thought I would post some here and tell some stories.
We spent most Christmas Day’s with Reimers and even if they were travelling, we always celebrated Christmas, even if it was early. We also spent a lot of other holidays together. Later on I hired her at the Salvation Army and The Lighthouse where she worked the front desk which if you know anything about shelters, is the most demanding part of the job.
Hiring a friend is always challenging but Kristy was great and found that balance between giving me absolutely no respect as her boss and getting the job done. I appreciate that in any front desk staff.
She had changed a lot by the time she worked with me. She was strong willed, loud, and could be defiant, all skills someone needs working with a challenging population. She also took those strengths and used them to advocate for people. Many time she would call me with a course of action she wanted me to take on Monday for someone who needed help.
Kristy was a quick thinker and good problem solver. She understood the big picture and the system we were in well. That made her a great employee but also someone I could talk with about the job because she understood the inherent frustrations in the system.
She was a passionate Edmonton Oilers fan and I am wearing a Calgary Flames watch while typing this so our friendship was based on either making fun of each other or just prolonged times of sadness when both Calgary and Edmonton sucked at the same time. We went over the Reimers one time and Kristy just said, “I have nothing to bug you about. It’s just pathetic how both of them are playing.”
We did set that aside momentarily on Christmas Day and we would often exchange Edmonton Oiler and Calgary Flames merchandise on Christmas. Just as we were both enjoying our gifts, the other would say something like, “I found it in the trash at Walmart. They tried giving them away but no one wanted it. I got you one.” Those truces never lasted long.
I like to think I won the exchange at least once. Kristy was a photographer and used a Nikon camera. I bought her a Nikon 24-70mm f/2.8 lens mug. The box hides the fact that it is a mug really well and Kristy thought I had bought her a $2000 lens. I was like, “Umm, we aren’t that close of friends”.
So she then realized it was a mug and while laughing about it was still really happy. The weird thing about this mug is that the top seals totally, there is no hole in the top which makes it really annoying. She told me a couple of months later that it drove her crazy every single time she tried to take a drink from it. She cursed my name every time and knew I would be pleased with that. I was.
The above photos of Kristy is my favorite of her. It was Christmas Day 2013 and for some reason after Christmas meal at the Reimers, Jerry and Gloria had somehow talked us into playing charades. The look on Kristy’s face is of her disgust with her losing team mates. If I remember correctly, her disgust was appropriate. Her team was horrible.
Someone asked me today if Kristy was close to the boys. She was close enough that when we brought Oliver home from the hospital, we stopped by Jerry, Gloria, and Kristy’s place before we stopped home. She tormented Mark for a decade and he loved every minute of it.
The day before she passed away, I was looking for something to get her for Christmas. I was going to give her an Edmonton Oilers Goalie Mask because I thought it was cool and I knew she would love one.
I decided to day that I am going to pick one up anyways. None of us are quite ready to leave her memory behind yet.
It’s Wendy. I’m back to do my annual Christmas Gift Guide for the men in your life, whether that be your husband/boyfriend/father or even some grown children.
Keeping Track of Time
Let’s start with watches. Nothing quite turns a boy into a man like a good watch. Here are some great ideas any guys, whether that are always connected or love to get away from it all.
It does almost everything an Apple Watch does at a fraction of the cost. It also works with Apple iOS and Android devices.
- Notiﬁcations at a glance: calendar events, text and emails, incoming calls, and more.
- Includes Pebble Health, a built-in activity and sleep tracker with daily reports and weekly insights.
- Built-in microphone for voice notes and quick replies (sending voice replies works with AT&T iPhone accounts and most Android apps including SMS, Hangouts, Gmail, Facebook Messenger, Whatsapp and hundreds more. iOS voice features for other carriers will be available in a future software update)
- 9.5mm thin chassis with curved, ergonomic profile.
- Marine Grade Stainless Steel bezel with PVD coating, matte and polished finishes.
- Tough, 2.5D glass display
- Tactile buttons for easy, eyes-free control.
- Magnetic charging with cable that works in any USB port.
- Vibrating motor for discreet alerts and alarms (wake yourself, not your loved ones).
- Includes 22mm Silicone Strap and USB Charging Cable.
- Battery life up to 7 days
- Water resistant to 30 meters
- Always on, color e-paper display with LED backlight
Another popular option is the Fitbit Blaze Smartwatch.
Luxury and quality don’t always have to cost a fortune. The Invicta Pro Diver men’s dive watch features a 43mm wide and 12mm thick solid stainless steel case with a unidirectional rotating blue accented silver tone bezel and textured screw down crown. Invicta is powered by Japanese TMI PC32A quartz movement. This stylish watch also features a sharp looking blue dial with white accents silver tone luminous hands and dot hour markers along with the date display function, scratch resistant flame fusion crystal and water resistant to 200 meters. The Invicta Pro-Diver watch comes in an original Invicta gift box and is backed by a 5 years limited warranty.
I bought one for Jordon for his 40th Birthday and it’s looks amazing and draws all sorts of attention whenever he goes out with it.
Discover the sleek, streamlined design of the Timex Men’s Atlantis 100 Watch. Features include a 100-hour chronograph with lap or split in large digits, an easy-to-use 100-hour countdown timer, a 99-lap counter, a daily alarm, day and month calendar, and a two time zone setting ideal for traveling. Thanks to the Indiglo night-light system, the digital face is easy to read, even in low-light situations. A strong black resin case and stationary black resin bezel hold a durable acrylic window to protect the dial, while a black resin strap with a buckle clasp make this watch ideal for exercising. This versatile timepiece uses precise quartz movement and is water-resistant up to 165 feet (50 meters).
Both Jordon and Mark have (different versions of this) watch and it is their everyday watch which is great for work, looks good if they are going out and tough enough when they are hiking the trail or we are camping.
For even less money, check out the attractive, tough and affordable Casio Illuminator watch.
Jordon has the 2016-2017 version and loves it. What makes this dayplanner better than all of the other ones out there, it has your weekly calendar on one side of the page with a full page of notes on the other side. It is a good enough planner to make Jordon give up Google Calendar and go back to pen and paper.
A great daytimer is nothing without a great pen. This pen is nice and durable enough that he will always want it with him but affordable enough that he won’t be afraid to leave home with it.
From there, let’s look at some personal gifts like an amazing shaving kit or as the British call them, a dopp kit. You can spend a lot of money on a dopp kit of use an old pencil case. Personally I find the Kenneth Cole Reaction Shaving Kit to be the perfect balance between the two and you get a bag he will use for the rest of his life while being a good value.
Don’t just get him a Dopp Kitt, inside it place some essential shaving products that he will love. The market leader is the Gillette Fusion Proglide Power Razor With Flexball Handle Technology. It’s a razor any man would love and if he doesn’t have one, it’s a great upgrade.
Jordon has preferred the Schick Hydro 5 Power since it came out. The blades are quite a bit less expensive then Gillette’s yet they last a long time and the shave is a great.
If you are looking to save some money up front and down the road, I recommend the Magnum M5 razor. We got one for Mark and he loves it. 5 blades, good shave and a package of blades lasts a long time.
Kingsley Shave Soap Bowl with Lid Dark Wood: This will last for decades and he’ll think of you every time he uses it.
Henry Cavendish Himalaya Shaving Soap with Shea Butter & Coconut Oil: He may not admit how good this feels on his skin but he will appreciate it.
Escali 100% Pure Badger Shaving Brush: The bristles on this brush are made from genuine pure badger hair, for a soft and luxurious feeling every time he shaves.
Victorinox Swiss Army Classic Eau de Toilette Spray: For when he goes out and wants to smell nice but still let the world know he is still tough enough to conquer it.
Jordon switched to one of these a few years ago and we later gave one to Mark for his birthday. It easily holds a bank card, a couple of credit cards, drivers license, health card, and a few others without causing your pain if you sit on it or irritate you if it is in your front pocket.
A great looking and affordable high quality leather briefcase. He will take it with him everywhere.
Out for an Adventure
Jordon’s grandfather had a wooden pocket knife that he carried with him every day for his entire life. This is the knife that your guy will carry will carry in his pocket each and every day of his life.
Not only that but if the fate of the world does happen to depend on him, he will be prepared with the same knife that MacGuyver had with him. If you are looking for a classic red Swiss Army Knife, check out this version.
Jordon and Mark aren’t big fans of Bear Grylls (they one time watched him bite the head off a large frog for no real reason) but they love this knife. It is small enough to carry in a pocket or toss in a bag that is ready and packed for adventure. Jordon’s knife has been used to make kindling for a fire, cutting some branches to cook with and is what he grabbed when we a wolf came into our campsite. He also uses it for work and carries it pretty much everywhere. If the guy you are shopping for takes pride in being self-reliant and the one that fix any problem, he needs a good knife. It’s one of those gifts that not only will he appreciate but when he bails everyone out because he has it, you will too.
Jordon has a Primus Classic Stove and Mark has a MSR Pocket Rocket stove but they fuel canisters. This does not. It burns twigs which are always around if you are camping and boils water in under 10 minutes.. It is a Gear of the Year winner from Backpacker Magazine and is ideal if the guy you are shopping for loves the outdoors.
Jordon gave me a pair of these for Mother’s Day and a pair for Mark for his birthday. Jordon keeps a small pair of binoculars in this bag all of the time for when we are hiking and they are great for watching Mark’s football games at SMF Field. The 10 times magnification is great for almost everything and they are good for almost any kind of daylight viewing.
Chilling out at Home
We live in a small house in Saskatoon. We don’t have the room for a vast sound system or home theatre system. So if we are entertaining at home, we want a great room filling audio system in a small package and good headphones when we want to escape into our work or a great playlist.
Let’s start with some headphones.
Bose Sound True around-ear headphones II were engineered with advanced Bose technologies. They feature exclusive TriPort technology so your music sounds deep, clear and full of life. The headphones feature a softly padded headband that distributes weight evenly across your head, and memory foam creates a gentle cushion around your ears. So they stay light and comfortable whether or not you are working in a co-working space or just relaxing to a long playlist at home.
If the cost of the Bose headphones are too much, check out a long lasting resident of these gift guides, the Sennheiser HD 202 II Headphones are a great value.
The HD 202 MK II closed, dynamic hi-fi stereo headphones are the ideal partner for DJs and powerful modern music, providing great insulation against ambient noise and a vivid, crisp bass response. The rugged lightweight headphones have a secure fit and can be used for both mobile sources and home (mini) hi-fi systems. When out and about, a convenient cord take-up lets you adjust the headphone cable to the required length.
For when we want some room filling sound, we use our Bluetooth speakers. It is discrete enough to never be noticed but has enough oomph to fill the room.
This is the sound system you have been looking for. For almost all of us, the first time we ever heard one of these, we went, “Oh, that is what the big deal is about.” The latest Bose Wave System IV works with your home Wi-Fi network and Bluetooth devices so you can play almost anything you can imagine. Use it to stream millions of songs from music services like Spotify and Pandora, thousands of Internet radio stations and your stored music library. There’s also a CD player and AM/FM radio tuner. So you can hear whatever you want with room-filling sound-all from an easy-to-use system that now comes in a new design.
It is the kind of gift that not only will he love but so will the entire household.
You really want an Amazon Echo
I don’t know how to best describe Amazon Echo other than comparing it to either the computer on Star Trek or Jarvis from Ironman. It is like Siri for your home.
It started out as a music player but it keeps getting smarter and smarter. Check this page out for what it can do now (and it keeps getting smarter in the future). Of course if you aren’t looking to play music, check out the Amazon Echo Dot. At $50 you can have them all over your house. If two of them hear you, the closest one answers. It connects with everything to your phone to your furnace. Again with it being cloud based, the upgrades happen online so you aren’t a slave to adding new hardware all of the time.
Anyone who owns a smartphone or tablet would probably enjoy owning a portable Bluetooth speaker. The best deliver sound quality that’s good enough for casual music listening, podcasts, and Internet radio. Portable Bluetooth speakers have a rechargeable battery that lets you easily take them all around the house or to the park or the beach. We’ve found they make hotel rooms feel more like home and long business trips much more bearable.
Here is what The Wirecutter has to say about the UE Roll 2
The original UE Roll was our unanimous pick for best portable speaker when we tested 30 new models last year, and we feel just as strongly about its replacement, the UE Roll 2. Like the original, the UE Roll 2 sounds full, with smooth reproduction of everything from bass notes to cymbals, and it plays loud enough to fill a hotel room or a beach blanket with sound. It’s so watertight it will survive being dunked one meter underwater for 30 minutes. Seven months of worldwide traveling with the original Roll have only confirmed our love of this design. The only real downside is that it lacks a speakerphone function.
For those who want even better sound quality and louder volume and don’t need their portable Bluetooth speaker to be super-portable, the Bose SoundLink Mini II is worth the cost (roughly twice the price of the Roll 2). It’s shocking to hear how much better the SoundLink Mini II sounds than most of its competitors, with clearer voices and a fuller sound closer to what you’d expect to hear from a decent small stereo system. It also plays loud enough to drown out a small dinner party. At 1½ pounds the SoundLink Mini II is perfect for lugging along on family vacations or from room to room in the house but probably heavier than backpackers and business travelers will want to carry.
These are always dirt cheap and available everywhere so it’s easy to dismiss them as not that good but The Wirecutter’s blind hearing test of in ear headphones consistently rates these near the top of their rankings despite their low price. So if you are on a budget but are looking for a great gift for a traveler, hiker, or someone who is always on the move, you can do a lot worse than a pair of these headphones.
A 6-inch, 20-watt downward-firing powered subwoofer. Eight 1-inch full-range transducers. Plug-and-play compatibility with virtually any multimedia device. And stunning industrial design that perfectly matches the clarity of the sound. The Harman Kardon SoundSticks III desktop sound system brings a new level of excitement to music, games and movies with a minimum of wiring and looks spectacular doing it.
Something to Watch
Looking for an affordable tablet? The Acer Iconia One 7” Tablet is the one you are looking for.
Jordon got one of these when he bought a Kindle a few years back. They protect the tablet well and people smile whenever he pulls a tablet out of one.
If you want to go higher end, check out the Apple iPad Mini 4.
Capture the Action
Why does he wants a drone? Why do you want a drone? Check out this video of a New Zealand family vacation which I love.
How much fun would one of these be to document a family vacation or a long weekend away. Our household is a big fan of Casey Neistat and his use of drones do such a great job of capturing his adventures and they are so easy to use.
One of the best drones one the market as well as more affordable than other options on the market. Since it folds up, it is small enough to fit in a shoulder bag and carry with you always. A 27 minute battery life gives you the time to capture all of the footage you want.
The Yuneec Breeze is another affordable drone that is designed for social media. If the DJI Mavic is there to capture cities and adventures, the Yuneec Breeze exists to capture you. It’s even easier to fly, works well inside and out, and has a 4k video camera to capture everything.
It doesn’t have the performance that the DJI Mavic does but it costs about half as much.
Around the House
So if you are convinced the world will end in 2017 or 2018, you probably already have this. For the rest of us, this seed vault offers a wide variety of seeds to take you guys garden to the next level.
These 20 fruits and vegetables provide an excellent source of nutrients you need for a well-balanced diet. Each seed variety is individually sealed to remove air and moisture and will store for five years and even longer at temperatures below 75 F.
What’s Inside the Survival Seed Vault:
- Blue Lake Bush Beans <150 seeds
- California Wonder Bell Pepper < 70 seeds
- Market more Cucumber < 150 seeds
- Scarlet Nantes Carrot < 800 seeds
- Parris Island Cos Romaine Lettuce < 900 seeds
- Golden Acre Cabbage < 530 seeds
- Detroit Dark Red Beet < 260 seeds
- Lincoln Sweet Pea < 100 seeds
- Stowell’s Evergreen Sweet Corn < 260 seeds
- Beefsteak Tomato < 180 seeds
- Champion Radish < 320 seeds
- Green Sprouting Broccoli < 500 seeds
- Waltham Butternut Winter Squash < 100 seeds
- Bloomsdale Long Standing Spinach < 260 seeds
- Yellow Sweet Spanish Onion < 145 seeds
- Black Turtle Bean < 70 seeds
- Hales Best Cantaloupe < 70 seeds
- Snowball Cauliflower < 285 seeds
- Black Beauty Zucchini < 50 seeds
- Crimson Sweet Watermelon < 60 seeds
If you guy likes to cook, raise his game with one of these fun cookbooks this Christmas. I picked a barbecue/entertaining focus because not only will this encourage him to help out around the house but he’ll have some friends over to eat all of the food he has proudly made. It’s the gift that keeps on giving.
You might us well upgrade his cooking utensil game while you are it.
A great all-round knife that at a great price. The Fibrox Pro 8″ Chef’s Knife is optimally weighted with high-quality, lightweight European steel that reduces hand and wrist fatigue, making it feel less like a knife and more like an extension of the hand. Perfectly suited for dicing onions, mincing shallots, chopping herbs, crushing garlic, slicing meats of all varieties, and shredding cabbage, its versatility will quickly make it his go-to knife.
- Grill set includes chef’s spatula, grill tongs, silicone basting brush, 4 pairs of corn holders, cleaning brush, and extra brush head
- Also includes aluminum storage case–perfect for the on-the-go griller
- Durable stainless-steel tool construction
- Elongated handles; convenient handle rings for hanging
- Spatula has built-in bottle opener
Time to Play
All work and no play makes for a dull guy. How about spicing up their games room with a dartboard, darts, and oak cabinet.
Well I was supposed to be on the road right now. On the first short first leg of a road trip. I was supposed to be eating at the Park Cafe right now but plans have a way of running into real life.
But let’s step back a second.
Ford Canada was
cool enough great enough cool and great enough to lend us a 2016 Ford Escape which as you may know, is my favorite vehicle of all time. Wednesday Wendy and I saw an Alfa Romero parked at The Springroll and while amazed to see it in Saskatoon, at this stage of life, I’d take an Escape (which Ford has for a week).
Not only has Ford lent me the Escape, they told me to get lost with it for the weekend. After debating going south to Val Marie (home of NHL great Brian Trottier) and Grasslands National Park or north to Prince Albert National Park (home of noted fraud Grey Owl), we chose north for two reasons. There is nothing to do in Grasslands National Park and Mark had a football game last night so driving 12 hours to get there and back is more than I wanted for two days. (I’m not hating on Grasslands National Park or Val Marie, we are going down there for May Long Weekend next year for no other reason to get photos of the signs that say, “Do Not Step on the Burrowing Owls”)
Speaking of Mark’s football game, last night we went to a wet and cold SMF Field at Gordie Howe Bowl to watch Mark’s team get destroyed by Prince Albert. Mark played well though and on the last series, he took a knee. We wandered out of the stands to see what was up. I was wondering if he took a blow the head. Nope, he took a hard hit to the kidneys and was vomiting up blood.
To spare some details, he was hurt but will be okay and we had him checked out. We talked about cancelling the trip or just Oliver and I going but he’ll be okay. So this morning we let Mark get a bit more sleep (a plan that the dog did not buy into) He is in a lot of pain this morning but he is good to go. I have a list of things to watch for but if none of those things happen, he should be okay. If not, in the words of The Guess Who, we’ll be “Heading back to Saskatoon.” That didn’t stop me from suggesting that because of him getting hurt, we change his name to Tony Romo.
So right away we will be leaving for breakfast a little later than we anticipated but Mark is claiming the heated front seat in the Escape and will try to grab some sleep on the drive up to Prince Albert National Park. As if he will be sleeping. The Escape has ESPN Radio which means that we will be listening to countless stories about Vin Scully and college football today. We will bond without talking.
So breakfast awaits. Then a trip to Waskesiu via the site of the Battle of Fish and the Batoche National Historic Site. Then we will go through St. Louis (where we will again have an argument over whether or not that bridge was ever safe for cars) and then Prince Albert.
We will post photos and more stories tomorrow.
I get asked all of the time if Mark is going to keep working at Safeway though the school year. The answer is yes. He is working most weekends including the Labour Day weekend. We had a long talk about what holidays were important to have off if possible like Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter and things like family birthdays and gatherings. Then we talked about the non-important holidays where three times his regular pays was pretty important. Labour Day fell into that this weekend. It means that we are going to Moose Jaw to have wings at the Deja Vu Cafe while Mark is cutting fruit at Safeway.
As for his money, some asked how we handle that. It’s been pretty simple.
- He wants $1000.00 for next year’s holidays which means that $40 a paycheck has to go into his savings account off the top.
- Then he pays his cell phone account which $19 month to month via Virgin. He gets texts and minutes but no data.
- He has a travel and adventure journal, in it he has a list of the gear he wants for next year. Things like new hiking boots and some other gear he wants to upgrade. He keeps an eye for that stuff on sale.
- Also he wanted to take care of Christmas presents. He has Wendy’s birthday and Christmas gifts taken care of. He tells me he has mine purchased and is waiting until closer to Christmas to get Oliver one of his gifts. So yeah, he’s done.
- Then when he gets paid, he takes all of the money that was left in his checking account and dumps it into his savings account for travel. He has saved most of this money from this summer.
The entire “It’s my money and I get to do with it what I want” doesn’t work in our household. He’s not like that anyways.
He is working while going back to school. Safeway allows him to restrict his hours. Not only that but he has a department manager that played sports and worked so he has one of Mark’s football schedules and is going to work around that. It will be fine and if it isn’t, we will help him out. I don’t know what means now that I have written it but I guess I could suit up and play football again, kind of like Sinbad in Necessary Roughness.
For the record, I did go to YouTube as soon as I thought about Sinbad in Necessary Roughness. Also, the movie holds up well. As a side note, I was watching this in a hotel in Boston when the hotel caught fire.
Also while the rest of you were posting cute first day of school photos to Instagram, Oliver gets ready, walks to the door and goes, “Later”. He’s a pro at this school thing now.
First of all, thanks to Mark for the photo. I generally hate photos of me being taken which is why I am always behind the camera but the problem with being a part of a family of photographers is that they have cameras as well.
Now you will notice the pockets in my shorts being wet. It has just poured and was cold so I put my hands in my pockets. This resulted in them looking like this. You win some, you look like an idiot in others. Thanks to Mark for capturing the essence of what it means to be a dad.
I am off to find my cool, from this photo it looks like I lost it.
This is why we came to Yoho National Park. “Takakkaw”, loosely translated from Cree, means something like “it is magnificent”. The falls are fed by the Daly Glacier, which is part of the Waputik Icefield. Its highest point is 302 metres from its base. The falls drop a total of 992 feet in four distinct steps, first dropping over two narrow plunges hidden within the slot canyon at the top of the falls (neither of which can be seen from the base of the falls). The river then hurtles 853 feet over the side of the Yoho Valley wall, then cascading down a narrow flume-like stairstep for an additional 94 feet.
Yoho is where the big mountains are. The drive to Takakkaw Falls both terrified and inspired the family. It was worth the trip before we even got there. I have never visited the park before and I can’t wait to return next summer.
Some of Parks Canada famed red chairs.
The appropriately named Cathedral Mountain.
The tradition of dunking one’s head in frozen water continues on.
While driving in Yoho National Park I saw a sign for The Natural Bridge. I would have sworn under oath that it was in Kootenay National Park but I have happy to be wrong and so we went and checked it out.
It was pretty cool and as we were leaving, a family asked if they could have a family selfie with Marley. Again, who takes selfies with strange dogs in strange countries as part of their Canadian Rocky experience? Apparently quite a few people do.
Wendy pointed out that it does look like a giant toilet bowl being flushed.
I should have posted these sooner. When you take several thousand photos on a trip, you have to edit several thousand photos. When I mean edit, I mean hit the delete key a lot.
In our last full day in Banff National Park, we planned to hike some of the trails around Moraine Lake. Those plans were changed when almost all of the trails in the Valley of the Ten Peaks were closed because of grizzly bears. That disappointed Wendy, Mark, and Oliver but I had a plan B, even if they didn’t know it yet.
As we drove up to Moraine Lake, the sign said the road was closed and three cars ahead of us did the U-turn and drove back down the road. A Parks Canada employee walked up and waved us past the closed sign so upward we went. It’s an amazing drive and show a forest that we had never seen before.
We finally got to the full parking lot and parked about a 300 metres down the road which was pretty good considering at times, that road has people parked on it for miles.
After turning my back on Oliver for about a second, he thinks he is in the Logdrivers Waltz and is jumping from log to log to go up the rock pile. Luckily the kid has skills and made it back to shore.
Canoes can be rented for about $60/hour or you can take a well maintained path to the stream/waterfall at the far side of the lake. We decided to walk.
This is the end of the path but Wendy and Mark decided to test their luck and balance and keep going.
Marley decided to test her luck as well and wandered out into the water, fell in, got wet, hit her head and swallowed some water before getting out. There was a Russian researcher there who had just gotten his permanent residency papers this week and was celebrating with his wife. They loved Marley’s clumsiness and we had a great chat about the mountains, Trump, Putin, and dogs while waiting for Wendy and Mark to return.
I need to explain these photos. Last year while at Sawback, I told the boys that there is a Cooper tradition of dunking you head into glacier waters the first time you head to a new lake or body of water. There is no tradition, I just wanted to see if I could make them dunk their heads in the water. This time Wendy and I were no so lucky as they made us dunk our heads in the freezing glacier water.
Just before I did this, I think I said, “Mark hold my camera but no need to photograph this.” He listens like his mother.
Solid hat don’t you think?
Did I mention I didn’t wear a hat in the Banff heat (and no shade) the day before. I was burnt.
Me taking a photo of a person taking a photo.
Don’t worry, it wasn’t a real bear.
While in the Gift Shop, I picked Wendy up a Moraine Lake t-shirt while Mark got her two bear figurines that made her day. She was still on a high from seeing the black hear the day before. It wasn’t quite as large as this one.
Several of you who are parents seem surprised that Mark enjoys going on family vacations still. Many of you hated going with your parents at that age and some have kids who are resenting going on trips with them.
I don’t have a secret but here are some things I have done so Mark wants to go on vacation.
- Scott Theede suggested we purchase Don’t Waste Your Time in the Canadian Rockies which is a book that evaluates hiking trails in the Rockies so you don’t take bad ones. At first glance it seems expensive at almost $60 but it worth it when you consider it is 677 pages and if you are like us, refer to it often. I have read the book cover to cover and so has Mark. In fact he wants his own copy. When we planned this trip (and are already planning the next one), I had Mark plan it as well. I spent a lot of time getting his input and helping him figure out what he wanted to do and seeing how that can happen. Mark suggested going to the Banff Upper Hot Springs and spent some time researching fun things to do. He was also a part of decisions like, “Do we take the dog?” It was Mark that convinced us that we should. At the same time he also said, “I’ll help the dog on the Banff Gondola”, a decision that seemed a lot simpler in Saskatoon than it was in line at the base of Sulpher Mountain.
- Mark and Oliver were comfortable in their own tent. I kept hearing from people how much they hated sleeping in the tent/camper with their parents and how much of a different it made even as adults to have their own space. Mark and Oliver have their own space. They have their own duffel bags, sleeping bags, air mattresses, compact chairs, and gear. They really appreciated having their own space. It was worthwhile. Parks Canada campgrounds only allow for two tents per campground (although I saw some that had a third small one) but I was clear to Mark that if he wanted his own space separate from Oliver, we would make that happen, even if it was a different campsite for him. I’ll post the gear that we have for the boys in a later post.
- I bought Mark the gear that he wanted. In case it rained, he wanted a new deck of cards, a decent lantern for his tent and a great coffee mug. The cost of all of those things was very low when you consider that they all made camping nicer.
- I checked out the day’s itinerary with Mark every morning. Now we have everything planned out a long time in advance but he appreciated the quiet conversation we had about what we were going to do and what ideas he had to make it better.
- Despite being in the mountains before, this was the first trip he ever took where he was in awe with what he saw. He fell in love with Castle Mountain and wanted to hang out and linger longer at the lookout. He wanted to risk life and hypothermia by climbing up a stream and waterfall at Moraine Lake. I just let him soak it in at his pace. Same with Oliver. Oliver’s camera is waterproof and at a certain time he sat on a rock taking underwater photos and was having a blast.
- He had his own money from work but appreciated shopping with Wendy and I as he figured out what he wanted to get. 95% of that time was mocking what we saw but I know he did appreciate the suggestions on what to get. My only disappointment was that he never got a onesie.
For next year we have started out debate about what we are going to do (the big picture is using Lake Louise Campground as a base camp to explore Lake Louise trails and some trails in Yoho National Park before pushing towards Jasper). We are working on a budget and making a list of what gear to upgrade before next year. He is a part of all of those discussions because I want it to be something we all like, not just Wendy and I.