Several of you who are parents seem surprised that Mark enjoys going on family vacations still. Many of you hated going with your parents at that age and some have kids who are resenting going on trips with them.
I don’t have a secret but here are some things I have done so Mark wants to go on vacation.
- Scott Theede suggested we purchase Don’t Waste Your Time in the Canadian Rockies which is a book that evaluates hiking trails in the Rockies so you don’t take bad ones. At first glance it seems expensive at almost $60 but it worth it when you consider it is 677 pages and if you are like us, refer to it often. I have read the book cover to cover and so has Mark. In fact he wants his own copy. When we planned this trip (and are already planning the next one), I had Mark plan it as well. I spent a lot of time getting his input and helping him figure out what he wanted to do and seeing how that can happen. Mark suggested going to the Banff Upper Hot Springs and spent some time researching fun things to do. He was also a part of decisions like, “Do we take the dog?” It was Mark that convinced us that we should. At the same time he also said, “I’ll help the dog on the Banff Gondola”, a decision that seemed a lot simpler in Saskatoon than it was in line at the base of Sulpher Mountain.
- Mark and Oliver were comfortable in their own tent. I kept hearing from people how much they hated sleeping in the tent/camper with their parents and how much of a different it made even as adults to have their own space. Mark and Oliver have their own space. They have their own duffel bags, sleeping bags, air mattresses, compact chairs, and gear. They really appreciated having their own space. It was worthwhile. Parks Canada campgrounds only allow for two tents per campground (although I saw some that had a third small one) but I was clear to Mark that if he wanted his own space separate from Oliver, we would make that happen, even if it was a different campsite for him. I’ll post the gear that we have for the boys in a later post.
- I bought Mark the gear that he wanted. In case it rained, he wanted a new deck of cards, a decent lantern for his tent and a great coffee mug. The cost of all of those things was very low when you consider that they all made camping nicer.
- I checked out the day’s itinerary with Mark every morning. Now we have everything planned out a long time in advance but he appreciated the quiet conversation we had about what we were going to do and what ideas he had to make it better.
- Despite being in the mountains before, this was the first trip he ever took where he was in awe with what he saw. He fell in love with Castle Mountain and wanted to hang out and linger longer at the lookout. He wanted to risk life and hypothermia by climbing up a stream and waterfall at Moraine Lake. I just let him soak it in at his pace. Same with Oliver. Oliver’s camera is waterproof and at a certain time he sat on a rock taking underwater photos and was having a blast.
- He had his own money from work but appreciated shopping with Wendy and I as he figured out what he wanted to get. 95% of that time was mocking what we saw but I know he did appreciate the suggestions on what to get. My only disappointment was that he never got a onesie.
For next year we have started out debate about what we are going to do (the big picture is using Lake Louise Campground as a base camp to explore Lake Louise trails and some trails in Yoho National Park before pushing towards Jasper). We are working on a budget and making a list of what gear to upgrade before next year. He is a part of all of those discussions because I want it to be something we all like, not just Wendy and I.